What is good love? Tonight (May 28) “If You Are the One”, the answer given by a male guest made everyone agree: two people hit it off and get along with stable emotions, and then the relationship can develop well. Another male guest thinks that the review is a very important part of the relationship between lovers. What is a successful review? Tonight’s show gives you the answer.
Meng Fei
female guest (1)
Talk about a hit-and-run, emotionally stable relationship
As an entrepreneurial decision maker, male guest Zhang Xu believes that “emotional stability is the greatest productivity”, “anger can affect a person’s decision-making ability, and decisions made by emotional control are often regretted.”
The same is true in his relationship, “If there is a conflict with the other half, I will not be very angry at first, and I should observe the point at which the other party’s emotions have reached the first time? If her emotions are very high, then you There is no way to communicate immediately, you can put it aside for a while, but I don’t mean to refuse to communicate. When her emotional value drops, go back to review the problem and solve the problem. “
Female guest Gui Mengjiao said that she used to be a person with a lot of mood swings, “When I like the other person very much and even have no self, I am especially prone to emotional imbalance. If boys can’t take care of my emotions, I will take care of my emotions. Feeling hopeless. Later I found that you have to have your own life and your own time, don’t put all your energy on your feelings, and your emotions will naturally be more stable.” Meng Fei admired this very much, “Don’t put all your energy into your relationship. Focusing on relationships doesn’t mean you don’t care about relationships. Marriage and emotional life are important to everyone, but they are by no means the first or only important thing. When you feel that relationships are the only important thing in life When things happen, it is easy to cause some emotions to get out of control, and we should put our emotions in an appropriate position.”
female guest (2)
female guest (3)
Zhang Xu believes that a good relationship requires a hit-and-run. “At first glance, both parties feel a lot more, but after getting to know each other, they find that the three views match each other, and they have a tacit understanding with each other, and have similarities in interests and hobbies. The two have their own dedicated careers, and they go to each other, The state of being evenly matched is what I want.” The three teachers agreed with the male guests’ sentiments. Female guests Chang Yuhang and Bian Qiuyue left the lights for the end. Who can hit it off with male guests?
Reviewing does not mean turning over old accounts, not talking about right and wrong and equal communication
He obtained a bachelor’s degree in biomedicine at the age of 19, a master’s degree in nutrition at the age of 21, and returned to China as a doctoral student at the age of 24. The resume of the male guest Qian Jingrui is very popular. Emotionally, he believes that resumption is a very important part of the relationship between lovers. “When encountering a problem, you must face it squarely, solve it, and cannot avoid it. Otherwise, many problems will break out again later. If you can solve the problem in the bud. The stage is more conducive to the development of the relationship.” The female guest Hu Xuefei said: “The two people have already quarreled, and I think it is no different from turning over the old accounts.” It is more emotional to go on with the relationship, rather than entangled in who is right and who is wrong. Turning over the old accounts is to accuse one party of making certain mistakes, which is more emotional; reviewing is to solve the problem, and it is rational. “
Female guests (4)
Female guests (5)
In an intimate relationship, a review is a great opportunity to get to know yourself and others. Two people think differently and see what kind of actions will make each other unhappy and touch each other’s bottom line, so that the two can continue to deepen their understanding and understand each other better. At the scene, Huang Lan gave a suggestion to the male guests, “Some girls are suitable for reviewing with you, and some need you to review the review silently, not in person. For many girls, solving problems is very important; For some girls, forgetting is the most important thing.” Meng Fei believes that it is best not to review the review with the theory of right and wrong, otherwise there will be no good results. If two people can give up the right and wrong to communicate equally and express their feelings, it will be a good review.
Female guests (6)
The female guest Feng Qi showed his love on the spot: “The male guest is very good. In many aspects, our ideas are the same. I also like to travel, and we are both in Nanjing. I hope you can take me away!” In the end, the two of them can Did you hold hands successfully? Please pay attention to Jiangsu Satellite TV’s “If You Are the One” tonight (May 28) at 20:30!