The Japanese cartoons that we saw in Italy in the 80s marked an era in which love was a central theme in the stories, so much so that they left an indelible mark in the hearts of millions of spectators, thanks to their ability to convey deep and engaging emotions. Love was told in all its facets: from romantic love to brotherly love up to self-love.
Romantic love was often the fulcrum of the plots, the love stories between the protagonists were fascinating and engaging and were capable of creating an emotional tension that kept everyone on the edge of their seats. Characters such as Mirko and Licia in “Kiss me Licia”, Mila and Shiro in “Mila and Shiro – Two hearts in volleyball”, the love triangle between Jonny, Sabrina and Tinetta in “It’s almost magic Jonny” and Georgie infatuated with both Abel than of the lover Lowell in “Georgie”, Candy and Anthony and then Candy and Terence in “Candy Candy” and Oscar and Andrè in “Lady Oscar”…. they captured the imagination of many young people who dreamed of and identified with their romantic adventures.
In addition to romantic love, brotherly love was also explored. Often the protagonists found themselves having to face difficult challenges together with their brothers or sisters, creating a special bond based on trust and mutual respect. A memorable example is represented by the Elric brothers in “Full metal Alchemist” or the March sisters (Jo, Meg, Beth, Amy) in “One for all and all for one” who fight together to achieve their goals and protect each other.
Finally, Japanese cartoons also addressed the theme of self-love: the protagonists often had to overcome their insecurities and accept themselves for who they were by learning to value their uniqueness. This message was depicted delicately and touchingly in “Heidi” or “Anne of Green Gables”.
In reality in Japan love is often considered a private and intimate topic, the Japanese tend to be discreet and cautious in publicly showing their affection, preferring confidentiality and discretion. They also place great value on loyalty and faithfulness in romantic relationships. The most important moment of a relationship is kokuhaku, confessing your feelings, that is, when you openly declare yourself to your loved one. But before taking this step there is a long period of mutual understanding in order to build a lasting relationship.
It is important to underline that affection towards friends or family (pronounced with the word ai) or romantic love (koi) are never expressed directly as happens in the West, it is more common to express love with gestures rather than with words. However, due to shyness and cultural influence, it is difficult to meet couples holding hands or exchanging affection in public. Despite the challenges to be faced, love continues to be a powerful force that enriches lives, surprises, nourishes the soul and unites people, even the shyest ones like the Japanese.