Yesterday, Tian Pujun’s new book sharing event “Be Harder to Yourself” was successfully held in Guangzhou. This event is another book sharing event in Guangzhou after Beijing, Shenzhen, Chengdu and Foshan. The theme of the event is “meme and 10,000 women.” Face-to-face” aims at Tian Pujun to personally teach fans the ideas of the book “Be Hard to Yourself”, hoping to use her influence to drive the awakening of women’s own strength and make women in the new era more exciting.
The new book “Be tough on yourself” shares: “I am still young and my body is growing in reverse”
When sharing the new book, Tian Pujun said: “When you are “ruthless” with yourself, you are being kind to yourself for a long time. That “ruthlessness” is a kind of self-discipline, a kind of stamina, and demands on yourself. Many people want a comfortable I will be very vigilant when I am in this state, and my friends in my life often say that I am too “ruthless” to myself.” “I think I am really lucky, and most importantly, I have remained strong for so many years. Thin, I joke with them, I say I don’t have age anxiety, nor gender anxiety, the only anxiety is weight anxiety. If I were a little bit heavier, I would immediately starve for a few days, plus exercise to keep myself Lose weight. I think I’m still very young, nothing has changed from when I was 18, and when I was 18, I couldn’t get my fork off, but now I can. I didn’t have a vest line when I was 18, and now I have it, so It’s actually an inverse growth process.”
Tian Pujun has worked as an actor, producer and businessman. These industries span a wide range. She spends a lot of time learning things she doesn’t understand, and asks experts in the industry or some experienced people for advice, and then slowly understands them, and then puts them into practice. Since 2013, she has produced the global interview documentary “Thank You” series, and the Chinese version of the interview documentary “Common Talk”, which have achieved very good results. Currently, she is also preparing for “Common Talk 2”. When it came to her favorite job, she shared: “I don’t have a favorite. When filming a documentary, I chatted with the guests and learned a lot of valuable nutrition from them. At the same time, I am also working in a company and learning. How to be a good team leader, I have to say which one I like the most, and I feel like which one I like very much.” In the past ten years, she has produced programs, published books, and started a company. Individuals also live colorfully.
Mentality change, Tian Pujun has grown up: “In the Internet age, we must be cautious in words and deeds”
Tian Pujun talked about independent women in an exclusive interview with the China Business Daily “Intuitive” recently, which was a great change from her previous statement. She said that now she thinks the word “independent woman” is too cold and too hard, but she is not a special one. hard person. The ultimate goal of the so-called independence is to make oneself happy. If you are not happy, there is no point in being independent. Now you need to be a happy woman. Previously, Tian Pujun was often said to be relying on Wang Shi, but now she no longer resists this statement, has accepted it calmly, and said, “I don’t rely on him.” Her views and opinions are completely different from those before. In addition to the change in attitude, Tian Pujun also shared his experience in other aspects: “In the Internet age, we should be cautious in words and deeds.”
Tian Pujun once posted a circle of friends, commenting on the divorce of a celebrity, which caused controversy on the Internet. In this regard, she said: “When I posted it, I didn’t think it would attract so many people’s attention, because I send it to the circle of friends every day to record the bits and pieces of my life. After the incident, I have to summarize myself, what did you do wrong? .I feel the most important thing is that no matter what the situation is, we should not comment on an incident at will, because we are not the parties, and we will never know what the story behind it is. As for myself, I I feel that whether it is a relationship between friends, husband and wife, lovers or colleagues and other social relationships, I believe that when people end a relationship, they should read each other well, and this is my value.”
In fact, in the past ten years, every time she was at the center of the whirlpool of public opinion, she would first find the reason from herself and ask herself if she did something wrong. “Everything has a reason, nothing is for nothing, but sometimes you do find that in this Internet age, your original intention is often changed into another understanding by other people, whether it is the right explanation or not. That’s right, in fact, I haven’t found a standard answer.
I can only say that my previous WeChat signature was called Luanfei Zhairen, because I am a person who flies everywhere, but actually likes to stay at home, but my current WeChat signature is called cautious words and deeds. If you talk less, if you talk too much, you will be wrong. It may be true that you said a word, but it will be magnified by others. Since you are a public figure, you must learn to be cautious in your words and deeds. After she experienced these things, she learned to be cautious in her words and deeds, not to cause trouble to the people around her, which is her own growth. character. “, Tian Pujun admitted and accepted: “He used the word “Tiehan”, which made me laugh at that time, as if I was indeed a little Tiehan, and some netizens wrote quite interesting. “