[Epoch Times, February 15, 2022](Reported by Epoch Times reporter Zhong Youchun) Mainland actress Sun Li, who has a pair of children with Deng Chao, made a public conversation with her son on Weibo on the 13th. She revealed that her 9-year-old son “wait” and said he didn’t want to be an older brother anymore because he felt that being an older brother was very stressful. And Sun Li’s persuasion was praised by netizens.
Sun Li revealed on Weibo on the 13th that her son told her the day before that he didn’t want to be a brother anymore but wanted to be a younger brother or sister because “I feel that being a brother is very stressful.” “Wait a minute,” he said, because he was an older brother, so others would take it for granted when they saw him being polite to his sister. On the contrary, his sister “Xiaohua” would be praised by adults just for doing a little thing. “He thinks it’s very unfair.”
After patiently listening to her son’s explanation, Sun Li asked, “Does this happen to my parents?” “Wait a minute,” she said, “A lot of the time, some adults outside say: ‘Wow, this sister is so nice, she can actually meet up with her. Brothers share’, and they all say the word ‘even’.”
Sun Li told her son that she could understand his son’s feelings, so she enlightened him: “We don’t need to pay too much attention to other people’s evaluations, and we must learn to believe in ourselves. If you think it’s unreasonable, you can politely tell him how you feel at the moment. “And said: “I support you. It is not because he is an adult that all the statements are correct, children can also express their own ideas.”
In Sun Li’s opinion, the son was in a good mood after listening to it, and finally concluded like a “little adult”: “Sometimes after being told, he will be in a bad mood. It’s going to explode because after all I’m a kid and I’m growing up.”
The post attracted many netizens to leave messages: “Sun Li is really a good mother!” “A gentle mother who will listen and understand her child, and a good friend who grows up with her child.” “I really like this kind of environment, parents will listen and take care of their children. Children are also willing to express themselves.” At the same time, he praised the sensible “wait for it”: “‘After all, I am also a child, and I am also growing up’ is such a cool sentence!”
Responsible editor: Ye Ziwei