“9 Ways to Touch a Woman That Drive Her Crazy”: What do you think when videos with titles like this slide into your feed on YouTube, Instagram or TikTok? Sounds like clickbait and probably not much content. Things are completely different with Gavin Sexton. The sex coach primarily educates men who suffer from pressure to perform and fear of failure during sex. And reveals what lies behind it: mostly false ideas about sex and what a partner wants.
“It’s shocking how unaware people are of how they think, feel and believe in sexuality,” says Gavin. Men in particular define themselves very strongly through sex, and it is often not clear to them that the decisive elements in sexuality cannot be controlled. In a conversation with sex podcast hosts Melanie Büttner and Sven Stockrahm, Gavin explains what really matters: closeness, emotionality and letting yourself go. The good news: Everyone has access to it, sometimes it just needs to be cleared.