“How to break up” has always been a science that should become a prominent but has been ignored. Maybe there will never be a standard answer to this question, but at least decentness can be used as a standard, or at least there is a bottom line.
Dancer Chen Lu bombarded the Huo Zun incident, and the melons grew bigger and bigger. The current result is that Huo Zun has “starred path dim”, or at least “staged social death.” Love becomes hate, and the bite is so tragic that it is alarming.
There are many things to watch in this incident, but a girl who has been the girlfriend behind Huo Zun for 9 or 8 years has no status, was broken up, and carried out a tragic retaliation, but this is a special test revealed in this sample. The dark part of human nature. This kind of love and hate gathering in the entertainment industry is not uncommon. If Chen Lu does not choose to tear it apart, everything will be like nothing happened, “the sun will rise as usual”, but once the (consciously) hurt and deceived party decides to punish the other party and “Don’t take the usual path”, then the whole thing will be very hideous and embarrassing.
It is said that Huo Zun has always been a fairy wind from the beginning of his debut. But it only took a few days to fall from the sky to the dust on earth. Prior to this, he appeared on the Hunan TV show “Brother Who Overcomes Thorns”. But at this moment, Chen Lu posted a close photo with Huo Zun on social platforms and opened his relationship with @霍尊. However, Huo Zun remained silent all the time. Two days later, Chen Lu published a long article again, to the effect that she gave up her career and gave full support to Huo Zun financially and spiritually. But what she thought was full of pain and willingness to walk into the marriage hall, but Huo Zun cheated and forced her to break up with cold violence.
Huo Zun’s response afterwards was startling. He sent a handwritten response in the mode of a “male fairy” with a poker face that does not eat human fireworks: Love has finally reached a forked road. It is a difficult choice for anyone, and we all need to bravely look forward.
This poetic but empty response also left room for controversy on arithmetic issues: Chen Lu said that he had been in love for 9 years, and Huo Zun said that it was only 8 years. According to Huo Zun’s response, it is 8 years and 4 months, and rounded up is 8 years. Perhaps Chen Lu has a different view on the beginning and ending dates of this relationship. It’s all here, and I still care about the year, how interesting it is.
Since then, Chen Lu published a series of WeChat group chat records to prove Huo Zun’s betrayal of love. Huo Zun’s suspected response in the circle of friends expressed his guilt for the past relationship and said that he had lost everything. Huo Zun’s career was hit immediately, including, but not limited to, withdrawing from the recording of the follow-up program of “Brother Who Overcomes Troubles”, and the performance video was removed from the shelves.
Unlike the “mutual tearing” that we are familiar with, Chen Lu gave a complaint, and thus opened a public topic: celebrities conceal personal emotional experience, conceal love, and love with their “single good men” personalities. Marriage status, in exchange for great “money”, is quite common. Girlfriends and wives who are willing to accept this arrangement are their own choices. However, celebrities hang their love partners and never get married or give names to both parties. There are risks. For example, if the two parties did not enter the marriage hall in the end, can they get together and break up decently? Huo Zun Chen Lu is such an example.
Here is a reminder to everyone, especially the celebrities: if the other party is dating you for the purpose of getting married, do not hang each other for a long time, which will waste the other party’s youth and cause the other party’s sunk costs to be too large. If it is appropriate, you should give each other a name earlier, or agree on a time limit that is acceptable to both parties. If you feel inappropriate, you should let go as soon as possible and let the other party continue to find their own happiness. If you are not sure, you should also make it clear to the other party early, reminding you of the risks of breaking up in the future, or agreeing on the terms and conditions of breaking up in the future. In this way, it is not only the respect and compassion for the other party, but also the responsibility for the close relationship, and it also minimizes the possible unbearableness in the future. In this way, the risks for both parties will be minimized.
Chen Lu now accuses Huo Zun of not giving status for 9 years, even riding a donkey to find a horse, being unfaithful to feelings, and unclean private life, which led to Huo Zun’s death at least in stages. Although Huo Zun has already done this, he is also responsible for it, but for Chen Lu, it is understandable to publish the chat history of Moments, but publishing the private chat history of the two raises a lot of questions.
Therefore, it is risky for celebrities to conceal their emotional experience, and it may be devastating to their own stardom. When two people are in love, they can talk about everything, but once the relationship breaks up, the various “littles” that one party exposes to the love partner may become a weapon for the other party to harm themselves, and it is often a big killer for celebrities. It can be seen that if Huo Zun had not become a staunch “Chen Shimei” activist in Chen Lu’s eyes, but had turned his mind, Chen Lujuan would not do this, and those personal moral issues would be carefully hidden in the “pile of old papers.” This is the tacit understanding she can maintain. In fact, she has always maintained it for a hope.
This is also a way more people are accustomed to. Because hidden marriage and hidden love are not uncommon in the entertainment industry.
“Loves that are not for the purpose of marriage are all hooliganism”, this saying has been passed on for many years. But in the entertainment industry, “love that does not aim at marriage” has become a matter of course. What’s interesting is that in the past, this kind of concealment was mostly because of the fear of the agent and the contracting company being upset, because the “Bing Qing Yu Jie” in the celebrity status is always more able to impress fans. This kind of thing is full of imprints of the 1980s and 1990s. But in fact, this kind of “official” “compulsion” has become very rare. There are more and more celebrities who officially announce that they are together and not together, but some celebrities choose to hide them for various purposes.
This primary purpose of course includes fooling fans so that the “single person setting” can be maintained to the end, but more importantly, for the best effect of endorsements. If a “fairy wind boy” learns like the Weaver Girl and is contaminated with the earth, it will naturally impair the beauty.
To be honest, this is not completely incomprehensible. A realistic version of the contradiction between fish and bear’s paw.
However, hanging the love partner for a long time did not give the name, and ended up in the other party’s reluctant breakup, and the end of the hand did not deal with it properly. As a result, the former partner counterattacked, how can it be sourceless?
Of course, the aforementioned public topics will eventually return to the level of human considerations. Just one sentence: In the intimate emotional world, be yourself first. “How to break up” has always been a science that should become a prominent but has been ignored. Maybe there will never be a standard answer to this question, but at least decentness can be used as a standard, or at least there is a bottom line.
After all, there are still men and women who eat and drink in the world, and their emotional problems are too great to be immortal or too great. Sincere and magnanimous, I said earlier if I don’t think it’s appropriate, don’t ride a donkey to find a horse, be loyal to each other during love, and be respectful when we break up. I think it’s indispensable. You don’t have to involve boundlessness—Chen Lu’s complaint also involves the world of love Irrelevant topics, such as Huo Zun’s contempt for a certain program. Such disclosure must be the result of being very angry and disappointed because the stop loss is not enough. And yourself, trigger a crisis of trust between friends.
In general, no one is immortal in the world of emotions. This matter once again reminds the men and women in love that since they don’t want to marry someone, they should make it clear and break up earlier. Don’t hang someone while riding a donkey to find a horse, otherwise it will cause uncontrollable consequences and harm others and yourself; In addition, if you are hurt, the counterattack should have a certain degree and basic dignity. Don’t just increase the effect of destruction and ignore your social existence.